Sunday, August 22, 2010
How to know when a girl is FAKING it
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Basics
First, you have to make her feel comfortable. Wheter she's your lifetime girlfriend or a girl you just met, it's just as important. Don't get too eager or too pushy about it. You have to be relaxed and start off gently but passionately. Making a girl feel desired is allways good. Now, I can't tell you exactly what EVERY girl wants, cause not every girl wants the same. But usally when a girl can't come is because she's uncomfortable in some way, and this girls tend to stand in the same cathegory, so this recomendations should petty much apply to them all.
My goal here, is to make you hable to help her overcome her fears or/and problems and show her trough your enhanced lover skills that she can toroughly and exaustively enjoy sex (with you of course)
Friday, August 20, 2010
What a girl Wants 2
As you can guess.. there's actually no incorrect answer, because rule number 2, a girl doesn't know what she wants until she's getting it. Sounds sexy uh? But how do you achieve that? Let me tell you, some times it's not even the guys fault, I used to have a girlfriend (yeah, girl on girl, I'm bisexual blah blah, get over it) which I adored and confided in etc. all those factors that society dictates to be the adecuate ones to make a girl comfortable enough to achieve an orgasm, the plus was not having to worry at ALL about getting pregnant, we'd been dating for about 2 years and I never, EVER, came when we had sex. She was really good in bed, amazingly hot but I just couldn't come, so don't get too depressed if your friday date didn't get to the climax, most girls don't, the thing is, you guys start touching yourselves since you are .. what? 2? so by the time you are 14 you've came soooo many times that you know exactly what to do and how to do it in order to become aroused.
The sad thing is, most girls don't, so by the time they have their first sexual relation they know absolutely nothing about their own bodies, making it an awkward and insatisfactory experience. So, rule number 3, comunication (you might wanna get a notebook..). In my experience, sex gets sooo much better when your partner lets u know exactly what she/he wants. The thing is, not all girls have the confidence to do this... so I'll elaborate more in the next chapter.
What a girl Wants
One thing u gotta know is this is not some kind of "how to get laid tutorial".. or maybe it is, depends I guess. But let us imagine that you are in the privileged possition where you have a girl ready to have sex with you, and by this I don't mean you are naked in the bed with her (yeah, I can read minds to) so back off a little... and believe me, if you are thinking "oh, this going slow girly thing again!?", let me assure you, we are as horny as ANY guy, the thing is, we are more picky, but if you are the chosen one, we'll be thinking about the moment when we can rip your pants off and fuck you blind, so, getting back to my point, the scenario is this...
You are in a room with her, you KNOW, there's no one bottering you in the next few hours, you are clean (please NO agressive smells or bathing in lotion cause that's just a MAJOR turn off, some drops of Hugo boss will do, when they're mixed with a men's natural clean odor the effect is fantastic)and you have a condom or know this girl is taking care of herself (so you don't have to run in the middle of intercourse to fetch one, cause by the time u get back haching from desire she will be asleep and believe me, she will HATE anyone or anything that wakes her up. So, the first thing u do is:
a)Quickly aproach her and while kissing her take off her clothes
b)Take off your clothes and watch her take off hers
c)Don't take off any clothes
Introduction
I want to make this as quick as possible to start on the main subject, but let me asure you, if u REALLY want to learn how to make a girl come, the first thing you gotta have is PATIENCE.
So first things first, I was browsing trought the internet and I read an interview of Sasha Gray (very famous pornstar, I shouldn't have to elaborate right?) and I noticed that she spoke about her scenes with guys as "well I use toys first to get aroused and... blah blah.. some girls just do it once and inmediatly quit..." etc. As most people, when I saw porn videos I tought, fuck! the bitch's liking it... so it came as a big surprise to know that most of this girls are totally hating it, and worst of all, FAKING IT, so, if this godlike super porn star hunk can't make a girl properly come, how can ANY guy, so, I began to watch some more videos and, yeah, of course there are some real orgasms, but it's mostly just really bad sex (at least for the girl), and for fucks sake , you can TOTALLY notice when they are faking it, I have no idea how any guy can miss it (we'll maybe I do..).
Also, when I typed the words "how to make a girl come" I was glad to find many articles, and I tought, well, at least this guys have some guidance right? but fuck!, this are things mostly written by guys who have absolutely NO idea of what they're talking about, I actually read some guy that recomended using baby powder... and some other guy who vaguely explained 3 steps for "great sex". First of all, he began the wrong way when he typed "How to make a girl come QUICKLY and EFFORTLESY" First of all, Quick is NOT gonna take you anywhere, cause even if you manage the fine art of making a girl have an orgasm if you do it in 5 mins. she's gonna get the feeling of not having had an orgasm at all, and second.. well let's just skip the second one and jump straight to usefull facts.
Oh, by the way, I'm a girl
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